Our pawsitivity coach, Pacer, has been giving us advice for years, so we thought it was only right to turn the newsletter spotlight on her for this week!
Hey, come play!
Train less.
Don’t worry, you can run the same mileage.
We just want you to enjoy it more, stress a little less.
Why? Because when we’re always training, or running to get better, we might start attaching running and performance to our identity. And when we attach how we run to our identity, we can actually release stress hormones through our body that can negatively affect our health and well-being.
When we instead run to play, we can still practice good form and we can train to get faster and stronger, but we attach to the outcome less, which frees our mind and our body to move how it wants to, enables us to enjoy life and running more, and improves our health and well-being. (And honestly- I hesitate to say this so we don’t reattach, but this can actually improve performance.)
As an added bonus, research has now made it evident that exercise encourages neuroplasticity, making post run or workout a great time to focus on the thoughts you want to think and the beliefs you want to embody. Adding PLAY (described by David Hanscom, MD as a “mindset of curiosity, deep gratitude, listening, anticipation, awareness…”) can increase your sense of safety (reduce anxiety) and release oxytocin (love/bonding hormone) and potentially reduce inflammation!!!
Practical Application:
Still want to train for the fall race? Of course! We’ve got you.
Make play your INTENTION for runs. Even workouts are a chance to be curious, grateful, and present to your experience.
The race is your GOAL, secondary to your intention. Your joy is not dependent on the goal, but the goal is a helpful magnet to increase your desire to put joy and play at the forefront of your life.
It might take time to shift your brain from outcome based performance to play, and that’s okay. You might want to save this post and re-read it each week for a reminder.
*Play and work are two sides of the same coin. Mindset is the main difference between what you choose to experience.
Coach Sandi Nypaver was once asked how she has built mental fortitude over the years and how she has stayed mentally strong to keep pushing when needed, as well as knowing when to stop to prevent possible injury.
How I Built Mental Fortitude 🏰:
For the first part, regarding how I built mental fortitude over the years, I want to begin by acknowledging that it started from a very dark place. I was diagnosed with depression, which I probably had since childhood. I struggled with a lot of self-hate and found myself on the opposite end of everything I believed in.
However, there’s a quote that resonates with me: “Sometimes you think you’ve been buried, but you’ve really been planted.” That became a choice I made. Over the years, I dedicated a significant amount of time to working on my mind. I delved deep into various books on neuroplasticity and sports psychology, listened to numerous podcasts on the subject, and even took a high-performance mindset course by a sports psychologist, which was incredibly beneficial. Many of the strategies that work best for me are now part of my routines outlined in the Higher Running ALL IN Training Plan series (more on that below).
I pursued learning vigorously, absorbing everything I could, but it also involved the realization that this was a priority for me, so I committed to daily practice. While I’m still growing and sometimes struggle with it, there’s a sense of pride in knowing I’ve worked hard to reach this point and am content because of that. What brings me joy is not just where I am now but also the understanding that I still have room to grow, and this mindset work will be a lifelong journey for me.
Staying Strong and Pushing Myself 💪:
In addressing the other parts of your question about staying mentally strong and pushing myself, here’s my perspective:
Staying mentally strong, especially in the context of a race, is something I prioritize and practice daily. It’s not just about running; it’s a mindset I cultivate throughout the day. I often tell my athletes that maintaining positivity is crucial, even in challenging moments. For example, say you get a flat tire on your car. If you can’t stay positive in such situations, it becomes much harder to handle other race-related challenges. Therefore, I make it a point to practice positivity consistently, which helps me during races.
Before a race begins, I already have a mental script prepared for various scenarios. This self-talk strategy is incredibly helpful because it sets the tone for how I handle difficult moments during the race. For instance, if I encounter a tough stretch but know my body is fine, I have specific phrases I use to motivate myself or redirect my focus. Sometimes, it’s as simple as telling myself to stop overthinking and just focus on running or enjoying the scenery around me. Having these mental tools ready beforehand makes them more accessible during intense race moments.
Knowing When To Stop 🛑:
This final part of this questions was knowing when to stop. Knowing when to stop is crucial, and for me, it involves having a candid conversation with myself before the race begins. I ask questions like, “If things from my training cycle are going wrong, what would I tell my best friend or a loved one in this situation?” This pre-race dialogue helps me set boundaries for when I shouldn’t push myself beyond a certain point.
During this reflection, I consider whether racing to my full potential might actually harm me more than help. Every race is different, so my approach varies based on the circumstances. For instance, before the Black Canyon race, I sensed that my motor patterns were off, which posed a risk of reinforcing bad habits. In such cases, I’d rather take a step back than jeopardize the progress I’ve made through hard work.
It’s about recognizing when pushing through might lead to setbacks rather than progress, especially when I’ve put in significant effort to reach a level where running feels great.
In wrapping up, the journey of developing mental fortitude and learning when to push or pull back is one that many athletes and individuals navigate. By sharing my experiences and strategies, I hope it offers insights that could resonate with you and help in your own pursuits. Cultivating self-awareness, preparing mentally, and having open dialogues with yourself can be transformative tools, not just in sports but in various aspects of life. Remember, it’s a continual process of growth and adaptation, and finding your own balance between pushing forward and knowing when to step back can lead to more sustainable progress and fulfillment.
Sometimes, finding just one good thing can help give us the strength to keep moving forward.
Train your mind to focus on good things.
Coach Sandi Nypaver gives you some of her top tips for when a run gets challenging or a day her going your way. Ultimately, it’s important to ask: Where will you choose to put your focus?
Training your mind to focus on good things can sometimes make the bad days a little easier or help you know when it’s time to start moving on from a bad experience.
Change your perspective.
On bad days we tend to focus on everything that doesn’t make us happy, but finding just on good thing to focus on can start changing our perspectives.
What good things can you focus on when everything seems to suck on the surface?
When it’s raining or snowing, you can appreciate that water is a necessary ingredient for growth. Focus on the important (prevent fires, important to life on earth) of water. Focus on something like how pretty the trees are on your run. Be grateful for the fact that you have a body strong enough to run.
Meditation can be a wonderful tool.
Mediation can be a wonderful tool that can help you stay in the present moment making it easier to focus on all the good things in your life. Meditation is meant to be simple.
Focus on your breathing.
All you do is focus on your breath., feeling the inhale and exhale, and quiet your mind. When thoughts come in (which is expected!), all your do is gently remind yourself to go back to focusing on your breathing. You can do this for a couple minutes or over 20 minutes.
